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- mary jo matsumoto



















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thursday, april 29, 2010

trust



this is a photo of me and my friend rebecca at a 50s party during college. i was 17 or 18 years old. we got together last night for drinks and were talking about how much harder it seems to be a young girl now. if you don't have the money to get plastic surgery these days, you're out of luck. we were laughing about how when we were in college at berkeley, showing your cleavage was just about the lamest thing you could do, like an offense to other females--all the cool kids would be like "don't you have anything better to show for yourself?"

like me, rebecca is a transplant to orange county from los angeles. we were talking about the process of making new friends and how the only people we really trust are the friends we made when we were in college--for me that was between the ages of 17-21. those people are still the ones i hold dearest. that, and my blogging friends. i really did tell her that! something about the process of getting to know people little by little, day by day through their diaries and comments is a very intimate process. i never dreamed when i started blogging 6 years ago that it would become such a big thing my life. it was meant to be a commentary on style to brand my company, but it became a place where age, occupation, and appearance were bridged, and it didn't matter and never really did whether my friends have "style" as long as they have goodness. okay good people, i am signing off. if my blog comes back tomorrow there will be a nice giveaway--if not, first thing monday!

xoxo mary jo


wednesday, april 28, 2010

back in a minute!



just wanted to let you know that my internet was down yesterday and today my blog will be migrating to non-ftp blogger and may or may not be down for a full 24 hours at some point in the near future. hopefully there will be no down time, but if it happens, i'll be tweeting more to compensate. so please check back soon--i have a wonderful giveaway this week + lots of stylish things to share with you!

in the meantime, the winner of last week's tonic giveaway {chosen by the random number generator} is teri rees wang. congrats! please contact me at trustyourstyle@gmail.com so i can find out what products you'd like and have them sent to you.



monday, april 26, 2010

monday's bittersweet obsessions


bittersweet obsessions by orly cogan


the only thing better than coffee and fashion on a chilly monday morning is coffee and art, so please join me with a steaming cup and let's catch up. this weekend i was able to stop by orly cogan's reception for her new show, love street, at the charlie james gallery in chinatown in los angeles.




i really enjoyed orly's work--modern themes about the roles of women and their desires juxtiposed on granny linens. the play of the sweet embroidery and all of it's connotations of submissive femininity contrasted with subversive content somehow works brilliantly.


searching for my prince


i only wish these photos better conveyed the sewing, applique and painting details which are quite stunning in person. using vintage printed fabrics and found embroideries, she embellishes them with her own concepts and questions about femininity. as orly explained to me at her opening, the show addresses the different stages of femininity and love: hopeful love {the girls and the appliqued frogs}; bitter love--an arrangement of pillows embroidered with familiar comments: it's not you it's me, we can still be friends, is that what you're wearing?}; obsessive love {the piece with girls snorting cocain and eating cupcakes}.

if you're in los angeles, the show runs through june 19. you can see more of her work at orlycogan.com.

despite some killer traffic getting in to see the show, it ended up being a really fun weekend! i got together with some of my friends in los angeles after the show for a nice dinner, checked out a new {at least for me} silverlake hot spot, had a great sunday brunch {thank you cynthia!} plus did a little hipster shopping on sunday before heading home. and somehow i ended up picking up three new gray sweaters in less than 24 hours--i guess you can never have too many gray sweaters...hoping you had a good weekend too. what did you do?



friday, april 23, 2010

friday's dreams



bella freud's collaboration with susie bick captured by sam taylor-wood is just dreamy. read more about it at nowness.




for some full on let's get the weekend started reading: six to bliss--everything fabulous' guest post on decorista was my fav post this week--you'll love it i promise!




and don't miss apartment therapy's small cool apartment contest. it's just the best. i'm still as taken with this contest every bit as much as when it first started.



to set a contemplative mood, check out what elizabeth gilbert {of eat, pray, love fame} has to say about the thrill of falling flat on your face: screw up (often, and boldly), learn from your mistakes, repeat. haha, i'm going to re-read this one!

and to end this reverie on an outrageous note, i leave you with lady gaga's ode to alexander mcqueen at the brit awards--beautiful in an elton john-meets-liberace kind of way...click here to watch.

have a wonderful weekend!

xoxo mary jo


thursday, april 22, 2010

beach hair + giveaway



dreaming of having luxurious beach hair? this past week i've been trying out a line of organic, environmentally-friendly products by tonic which are designed to protect hair from nature's harsh elements both on and off the beach.



so far i've been loving the chronic tonic shampoo and conditioner system which is made for weather beaten hair {hello that's me}. i'm pretty picky when it comes to hair care products and i liked that this product not only is 100% earth friendly, sulfate and paraben free, but it's also light and leaves my hair smelling good and feeling conditioned.



trustyourstyle teamed up with tonic to offer a lucky tys reader a chance to win either the chronic tonic shampoo and conditioner system {retails for $28} or a bottle of luster leave-in conditioner + a bottle of threesome tonic, a shampoo, conditioner, and stimulating body wash {retail $26 for the pair}.



if you'd like to protect your hair from the damaging effects of sun, salt, wind and chlorine be sure and enter the contest! {it doesn't matter whether you've won before, entered every contest tys has ever had, or never entered--the random generator is impartial.}

this giveaway is for us residents only and will end next thursday. to enter, just leave a comment below and please make sure there's an email/website where i can contact you if you win. for an extra chance to enter follow trustyourstyle on twitter or google {buttons are on the right hand side of this blog} and leave a comment letting me know. good luck!

before i sign off, i want to announce last week's winner of the neulash giveaway--the random number generator picked tamara nicole of memory bean designs! congrats! please email me with your address so i can make sure your tube of neulash gets out to you asap.

hope you're having a fab week, meet you back here tomorrow!

xo mary jo


top photo via tumblr; surf photo by aaron chang; tonic photos courtesy tonicshop.com



wednesday, april 21, 2010

message in a bottle



today is one of those days where it's too overcast and windy to be outside but not rainy enough to stay inside...a good time for reflection. even though it's not beach weather, i am craving time at the beach--soon enough it will be hot and crowded with tourists and i'll probably miss this quiet time.



yesterday a younger friend of mine told me that she felt pressure because she should be doing certain things for her career, but all she really wanted to do is take time off and work on her art; draw, paint, and sketch. that she'd lost touch with that part of herself that was creative and always making art. if only the answers to life could wash up in a bottle for us to find on the beach...



i think that when we force ourselves to do things we think we should be doing they never turn out well anyway, so it's best to do things that make us happy. all this striving for our careers and in the end, what does it really mean?



i changed so much after seeing my father slip away right before my very eyes. he was such a successful accomplished man, but at the end of his life it was his goodness that made doctors and nurses give that extra bit of themselves to make sure he was comfortable, and i saw them wipe away tears on more than one occasion after leaving his room. at the end of your life nobody cares how much money you have, what celebrities you hung with, or what kind of clothes were in your closet.

i'm wishing you, me and all of us simply to be happy and loved today.

photos via tumblr


monday, april 19, 2010

who says coffee isn't glamorous?



good morning! hoping you had a wonderful weekend. thought you might find these glam ladies inspiring while you sip your morning coffee. ah, fashion and coffee--does it get any better?

















sending you stylish coffee wishes until tomorrow!

xo mary jo


photos: lecheapcestchic; tumblr; vogue italia; olsensanonymous; googlereader; wetbehindthears; jennylewismyspace; facebook; tumblr.


friday, april 16, 2010

ode to a magpie



there's a superstition related to magpies saying that seeing one is bad luck. saluting the magpie apparently counteracts this. there's also a poem related to this superstition indicating what it means to see a certain number of magpies together:

one for sorrow. two for joy. three for a girl. four for a boy. five for silver. six for gold. seven for a secret never told. eight is a kiss. nine is a wish. ten is a chance never to be missed.

i must've been a magpie in my former life because i do love bright and shiny objects of delight. here are some stacks of carnelian, jade, turquoise, pearl and czech crystal treasures that will be hitting my etsy shop in the near future.




want more whimsy, magic, and brightness? here are a few links i thought you might like to tide you over this weekend--enjoy!

* from dujourmag.com, rachel roy's enchanting video, miroir mirror

* cynthia rowley's watercolor collection for roxy {click here}

* pleated to meet you or burberry's new killer bags

* style.com's pick of the week by zimmerman {and i don't mean robert}. click here for the scoop.

top photo via tumblr



thursday, april 15, 2010

gleeful glam giveaway!



anyone else a glee fan? lea michele looked so glam at the glee premier party at chateau marmont that i had to post a photo. and omg, did you see glee's crazy cheerleader coach sue sylvester starring in her own "vogue" segment which recreated madonna's video shot by shot? it was pretty great. sorry i can't help it, i have to post it:



speaking of glam, today's giveaway is for all you glamorous readers who might be wishing for fuller, luscious, longer-looking eyelashes. trust your style has teamed up with neulash to give away a 6ml tube of neulash (which retails for $150.00) and one lucky tys reader is going to be the winner!



to enter to win your tube of neulash just leave a comment below. and if you'd like a second or third chance to enter, sign up to follow my blog or trustyourstyle on twitter - buttons are on the right hand side. if you do sign up, please leave me a message letting me know that you did and make sure that your comment links back to an email address/or blog where i can reach you. good luck!

p.s. if you're hunting for the perfect mother’s day gift, neiman marcus stores nationwide will be offering an exclusive in-store gift set from neulash valued around $200.

p.p.s. in case you were wondering what neulash is: it's an eyelash conditioner that naturally improves the overall appearance of lashes and brows in as little as two weeks. the serum contains renewing properties that protect lashes and brows from breakage, making them fuller and healthier and giving them the appearance of fuller, thicker and healthier-looking lashes. the serum is safe for use by those who have eyelash extensions or contact lenses. ophthalmologist and dermatologist approved, neulash has been found to be safe and gentle to eyes without any known adverse side effects. all of its ingredients are cosmetically approved and backed with several years of independent testing, for more information, visit www.neulash.com and www.neimanmarcus.com.

still reading? good, because i'm announcing the 2 winners of the
tweezerman pro eyelash curler: k from never turn down a cupcake and miss neira are the 2 tys readers picked by the random number generator--congrats!! ladies, please email me your address at trustyourstyle@gmail.com so i can have your eyelash curlers sent out asap.

hope you're having a good week! meet you back here tomorrow for an end-of-the-week round up and lots of lovely links!

xoxo mary jo



tuesday, april 13, 2010

arm candy!


amethyst stretch bracelet with candy


hoping you've been having a great week so far! i've been having some technical difficulties with my new computer/internet connection, but think it's all worked out now. anyway, a sunny tuesday afternoon seemed like a good time to introduce some new semi-precious arm candy i've been working on. hope you like it!



rose quartz stretch bracelet with cookbook




rutilated quartz bracelet with vintage brass monkey




pale green freshwater pearl bracelet with vintage deer




turquoise bracelet with horse coin charm


p.s. i worked really hard to keep the prices affordable. i saw a turquoise bracelet identical to mine at a trendy boutique in laguna this weekend. the only difference was that theirs didn't have a horse coin {yes, i've got some new horses to show you} and was $83 more! because you're buying from me directly it hasn't been marked up 2.5 to 3 times more than it needs to be and this way you can afford to get a few of these pretty candy bracelets!



faceted rose quartz bracelet




mother of pearl bracelet with horse coin charm




faceted cherry quartz bracelet



these are just a few of the pretty semi-precious stone bracelets and vintage pieces arriving in my etsy shop. hoping you'll drop by soon!